Crushing Affairs
An affair is crushing. All the hopes and dreams you had of being happily married are gone in an instant. You can hardly breathe or think, all is a whirlwind of fears and betrayal. Days full of tears and sleepless nights flow into each other until you lose track of days and time. Depression and anger mix together, and everything you hoped for in marriage seems lost. Every marriage counselor works with this each week because sadly, it is so common. The shock of discovery is devastating. Once that is past, it is time to think and assess. If your spouse has had an affair, or if you are the offender, let’s talk about what to do now. An affair blows the lid off of the marriage. No one wakes up in a happy, deeply connected marriage and decides to ruin everything. There is never an excuse for …Read More